A Small Cup of...MENtality?

               November, usually the month which consist of a lot of celebrations! In which ,one is November 19 , International Men's Day..! 

      Have you ever thought ? That Women's Day is celebrated in a grand manner everytime but we never knew it's ,"Men's Day"until someone uploads in social media..! 

         We people are really determined to improve women rights and women empowerment ,that's appreciated..! But in-between we totally forgot about the struggles faced by the other gender..."The Men" ! Whatever the problems faced by women were also faced by men! Even more!! They have a lot more responsibilities than women has !But they don't open up or outspoken as much as women do..!Do you think why ? 

      Do you think it's all because of male chauvinistic behaviour or manliness? Or they are so strong to face their problems and they never cry because of their dominated ego? And that's definitely wrong! 

       It's all because of the stereotypes which were formed by someone ,long back..! That men shouldn't be emotional ,they should never cry and face all their problems strongly !..and if not it's that they should be ashamed and treated as if they lost their their manliness and they're not portrayed as a good example.! Maybe these stereotypes aren't followed by men themself but they're followed by the society..you ! Me! Us!   

     When we change ..! Everything changes..! It's not about the gender ! It's all about the emotion! And it's common to everyone..! We are talking about equality to women but men indeed don't get their basic right of showing their emotions ! It maybe about stereotypes but it's more about mentality..! We can't abolish such stereotypes but ....

Can we change some mentality ? 

And erase the traces of the stereotypes?

                           - Sakthi Madhumithaa SM